Relationships: Seriously

Relationships: Seriously: "So this really bothers me. I am SICK and TIRED of hearing my female friends complain about their boyfriends. Ladies, when you met your man ..."

Seriously

So this really bothers me.  I am SICK and TIRED of hearing my female friends complain about their boyfriends. Ladies, when you met your man and he was not working.....you CAN NOT complain 6 months later that he is still not working.  If your man lies to you ALL the TIME....guess what.....that is NOT going to change.  If your man treats you like shit and you think he is cheating on you.....HE PROBABLY IS!!!!  Now this works both ways.  Gentleman, the same goes for you!!! Do not complain your girlfriend shops too much or spends too much money.....I am sure she did that before you started dating her and at the beginning of the relationship.  Ladies and Gentleman......STOP trying to change your partner.  If they wanted to change....they would have done that before they met you!  Now there is nothing wrong with trying to "adjust" certain aspects of your partner.  After all, part of being in a relationship is compromise.  But there is a fine line from compromise and trying to change a person so much their family will not recognize them.  Yes I agree change can be for the better sometimes and trying to help someone make a better life for themselves is great and all.  But if THEY do not want to change for themselves, what really makes you think they are going to change for you.  And please think about this......If YOU do not like how your relationship is going, and your partner does not want to change, it is up to YOU to do something about it.  Most of you have something to offer your partner....find someone who has something to offer back.